OMG OMG OMG!!!
You know how I was saying I was going to marry a spaniard in my last post?? Well I DID IT!!
Not a spaniard, but something else I’d rather not say. Anyways, you know how I said it would be interesting to see my parents reaction? Well it’s NOT!!
They are $*&^%$#$%^&*&^ pissed and are hunting me down! Well my dad and brothers are anyway.
We are going to travel to the states to get asylum. Hopefully, it will work since he knows people!
Its a long confusing story and I gtg!!!
Needless to say you won’t be hearing from me for a while!
……I even left you guys a clue and tagged the post as ‘creative’
Many bloggers start their posts bragging about how busy they are etc etc, yet they post like 10 times a day, everyday! Which I find bloody annoying! While here I am so busy I don’t have time to post! Between my constant travelling, work, and my crazy life, my blog is being neglected :
Since I know for a fact that things are about to get even crazier (and in a good way;) ) I have decided to close down the blog for a while (1 month or so). Notice I said for a while only, I am not into the dramatics of the fake quitting bloggers either. So here are some fushies to keep u busy till I am back.
Feb Fushiness:
1- A while back, a guy friend of mine got pissed cause I wouldn’t date him, although I liked him and he was super hot, I just didn’t see a future. He later got a GF and we would hang out with other friends, whilst she pretended she didn’t hate me. Anyways, one day I mentioned I was getting a new fancy car, and for a month later he kept making fun of it, and how it sucked, and just pissing me off and embarrassing me in front of everyone. I told him that once he eats my dust, he won’t be making fun anymore. But he got even meaner and meaner!! Saying how his car has all these fancy shmancy add on’s and I would never beat him!!
Anyways, I ended up getting an even better car, and saw him on the road by coincidence, and you guessed it!! HE SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO ATE MY DUST!!!
The guy was so far behind me, I ended up cruising 
Uff baradt chabdy!
2- I am about to embark on something amazing, which I am proud to say that I am fully paying for. In fact, I have been paying for pretty much everything in my life, since I was out of high-school, but this to me is a big deal! It feels great being so independent! The world is mine for the taking!
3- A friend told me that single girls get dressed up and sit in cafe’s etc on vacations to meet men! 3ala golat’ha iythab6oonhum bil sufar cause no1 knows who they are. I found this out when I mentioned that I traipse around in my running shoes and jeans, when on vacation (hell even when I’m here ). Apparently, I have no ‘picking-up-potential-husband’ skills. LOL.
I was also told, I should open my eyes, and look around, whatever that means :p
4- I decided I am going to marry a Spaniard and surprise my parents. Should be interesting.
5-Getting mace in one’s eye or anywhere else for that matter is painful. Even a tiny tiny drop. (note to self: do not test the mace)
6- So I went to my first ever yoga class, which was kinda fun, and I found out that I was very flexible in yoga standards! Yup, I lioned, elepanted, cobra’ed all with the ease of a pro!! Yaay me!! (Golaw mashallah!)
So there I was in perfect pose, stretching and breathing in deeply, when I look out the window beyond, into the dark skies and see a sign.
BURGER KING.
I keeled over laughing ;p
Don’t get me started on the OMMMMMMMMM part.
7- I have a hot admirer, and I am enjoying the attention (only cause he is hot of course, since attention from an ugly, is like the perfect dress 2 sizes too small. Bloody annoying!)
8- Why do people I don’t even socialize with keep inviting me to their weddings. I mean you have never invited me out for a cup of coffee, hell you have never even ever, called me, but you invite me to your wedding?! Then you bitch about me not being able to come. Bite me!
9- What is it with guys who go from one blogerrette to another? I mean they will add them to msn, chat with them, email them, get into a relationship with them, meet them outside etc. But as soon as things get serious they bail. Then they move onto the next bloggerette and do the same thing. Otherwise, they just test the waters with different blogerrettes.
Come on guys, grow a pair, chose a girl and stick with it.
Us girls, may not advertise it on our blogs, but most of us are friends and we know all about you and your player ways, and we humour you, then we get together and laugh about you 
(notice I said guys and not men, cause men know what they want.)
10- Finding a masseuse who doesn’t feel you up, is like finding the perfect thong. Get it wrong and your gonna end up violated.
Anyways everyone, I am off!! As, I said I will be gone for a while, so feel free to tell me how much you will miss me, and don’t forget the PAY IT FORWARD CHALLENGE!!
P.S. To my friends, I really appreciate having you in my life and I love you all!! :*******
*Just to make things clear, I will be upto no good
and will love every moment of it.
I can understand when it is parents honking the car for the kids to get out.
I can understand when it is workers building and making loud noises.
I can understand when the phone rings in the house.
I can understand when our imam, thinks the microphone is a kareoke.
I can understand when somebody rings the doorbell.
BUT……
What I CANNOT understand….
UPDATE: It was an orgy.
I only ever realise how busy I am when I finally get the time to ‘create new post’ and I am flooded by all the things I have done in the month or so that has passed. Hmmm let’s see…
Well there was work, work and more work. Like 12 hour work days kinda work. Then there was fun, fun and more fun!! I guess I am the work hard, play hard kinda person.
My room was practically like a hotel over the past couple of months, with me only coming home to nap and then leave again. Speaking of hotel, I also went on a work/fun trip.
All this of course caught up with me and I got to the point where I had a whole bunch of things planned, which I could not physically do, I was soooooo tired I nearly cried! So you guessed it, I spent a weekend in bed watching TV and well, here I am.
Significant events of the past month:
1-Sent ‘pregnancy scare girl’ a msg telling her I couldn’t bring myself to talk to her after her bad treatment of me. She didn’t reply. Guess she understood the undertone of me not accepting the way she ‘acted’.
2-‘Love of my life ex’, had been calling and msging and emailing like crazy. He does not know that I decided to not speak with him anymore. Since he started contacting me at work, I ended up replying to an email telling him I am ok. He got pissed and he got the point. I however, am starting to wonder what the point was since I really miss him. (Update: Seems he is still calling)
3-Work has been crazy hectic, although I have impressed myself with my abilities which have also been reflected in my work. I wish I would get more recognition though.
4-Haven’t really been going to the gym, which sucks; I can really tell how much going to the gym makes affects my mood and body positively. Must start going again! (Update: Started going again and feel much better)
5-I got into a new hobby. Wall climbing at marina waves after a long walk. Great fun, however, the weather got too cold so I haven’t done that in a while.
Actually I wrote a timetable of hobbies a long, long while back which I have been meaning to post and follow. Will do that soon.
6-I tried a couple of new things. Like big deal new things. Was fun but dunno if I would do it again.
7-Picked up a girl at a bar
8-Met my friend from the accident and spent some great times with him. He really is a sweetheart. Annoying, but sweet.
9-Acted like a superstar with a bodyguard pushing everyone out of my way, and people watching to see who this girl (yes me!) hehe
10-Been mistaken 5 times for being much much younger than I am (no complaints)
11-Received an amazing and sincere compliment from a supa duba hottie. YaaY!! (You had to be there)
12-Been conned by my naughty niece :p ( I still love her though)
13-Worked on my confusing future and am continuing to do so.
14-Saluted 2 really, tall, black guys. Don’t ask :p
15-Looked into making an investment. I think I may go in another direction though.
16-Discovered a friend of mine had kept a secret from me which just makes them look like an asshole. And you guessed it, it’s a male friend. He’s cute and has a 6 pack so I think I may forgive him ;p
17-Finally arranged my clothes in my new wardrobe.
18-Had money stolen from me, but let it go.
Finally, I realized although sometimes I just wanna keep going, my body and mind will shut down and refuse to budge. Therefore, Miya, kindly rest before you get to that point.
p.s. If you have no idea what I am referring to, then look back cause I can’t be bothered linking.
OK people!! You should be ASHAMED of yourselves seriously!!
Not 1 person has completed the Pay it Forward Challenge, not even one!!!!!
You see this is where things that make a difference come into effect, every single one of you has complained about how things in Kuwait need to change, but not one of you wants to get off their ass and actually do something. Yes I am wagging my finger at you!! TUT TUT TUT!!
So I will be moving the deadline 2 whole months to give you plenty of time.
New deadline: 20th March, 2007
Also, please see the PIF-KUWAIT site for a list of those who accepted the challenge. I am waiting for your work you guys, the site is empty!
Please please people do something, anything!
P.S. For those of you who used the excuse, of doing good deeds anonymously for God, well, I have given you the option of being anonymous. Plus this is bigger than just charity, this is a movement for the better of society. OUR society.
Mine was one of hormonal hell!! Of course I didn’t realize why my emotions were all over the place until it was all over! LOL. Talk about great timing!!
Anyways, today I want to talk about paying it forward:
Paying it forward is when you do a good deed, and ask that person to repay you by doing a good deed for someone else in return. So it becomes a cycle.
I had been thinking about that for a few days, when I happened to come across an episode of Oprah dedicated to the subject. She had given out $1000 and a camcorder to each person in the audience and given them 1 week to pass the money onto somebody in need, while video recording the process. One person ended up talking about the plight on the radio and the $1000 turned to $200,000 to build a shelter. Another $1000 turned into $75000 for a family of 7, whose father had recently become disabled. There were also $100 bills given out to random people and even some pizza guys.
What really got to me was how some of those people were just sooo in need of $100!! Crying their eyes out at the sight of that bill, when here I am not even blinking an eye when spending that much for a dinner.
I remember being a much kinder person (not that I am not kind now) who used to make time for volunteer work and helping other people. When I remembered two of my most rewarding moments:
Moment 1:
I volunteered to go to the handicapped and elderly centers. At the handicapped center, I saw bodies so deformed, they would not physically be able to sit up. They were just contortions laying on matteresses on the floor.
At the eldery center I met a woman in her forties. She once had everything, but after a car accident left her paralysed, her husband divorced her and left her with nothing. But she was not the one telling me her story, I heard it from the nurse. She was there happy, strong and a believer through and through. Smiling at us, I sat there mesmerized by her strength.
I held it together until I left. Then as the driver drove me home, I cried and cried and bawled my eyes out. I thought to myself of all the times I have hated life, and been angry at God for the most stupid of things, forgetting all the blessings he has given me. I apologized to HIM 1000 times over, for being so selfish.
That was a life changing moment for me in every sense. I became a positive person, making sure to always see the bright side of things, and trusting in God’s decisions for me. When I feel beaten, I remember that women’s strength. When I feel bad, I remember those contorted bodies on the ground. Then I look at myself, and thank them, for showing me just how blessed I am. Thank you God.
Moment 2:
This actually happened when I was about 19 and before moment 1. For a couple of months I got addicted to Mirc, and noticed a person who kept talking about how depressed they were on the main channel. He kept flooding the channel with talk about how he hated life and was going to kill himself. I sent him a message, and tried to console him, only to realize just how depressed he was.
He had nobody in the world to talk to, and soon I met him in person and let him pour his heart out to me. I was his shrink, and I let him talk and talk his problems away. He started to write songs to express his feelings, and composed songs to them on his guitar. Within a year he fell in love and got engaged.
Then the day came when I was faced with one of the most difficult things I would ever have to do. But there he was by my side, talking to me until I calmed down, and held my hand through it. Things could not have been easier.
With time, we lost touch, but not until after he told me that he named his daughter after me. Baby Miya.
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Anyways, this all got me thinking about when was the last time I really helped somebody (other than those around me of course). When was the last time I did a good deed??
Hell, when was the last time YOU did a good deed?? Most of us won’t even smile back at a stranger these days, let alone help them. So how about it people. How about, we try and make Kuwait a better, kinder place?? I challenge you to do it!!
PAY IT FORWARD CHALLENGE – KUWAIT
1-Help a random person.
2-Try to take a photo of the offering/person.
3-Ask the person to repay you by doing a good deed for somebody else.
3-Blog or Send me an email about it. (can be anonymous)
4-Link it to this blog. (www.pif-kuwait.blogspot.com)
Deadline: January 20th 2007
Please spread the word!! (Even non-bloggers may join in)
It doesn’t have to be a big thing. But it can still mean a lot to that person. Remember, what goes around, comes around. What you do will not only help that person, but will make you feel great about yourself.
Even better, God is watching
P.S. Please do not leave comments saying how kind I am blah blah blah. That is not what I am interested in, I am not here to glory hunt, I am here with a vision of people helping others without looking for anything in return. I do not want your kind words, I want your kind ACTIONS.
Since I have so many things going on that I wanna talk about, I am going to write a mass post with a little bit about everything. Then I will go to the gym. Yes, I will. I must!
1) Remember my friend in the hospital? Well, I started off my day yesterday with tears of joy, after finally getting a phone call from him and hearing that he is OK. Actually, the first thing he said is “Hi, how are you?” LOL.
The accident happened while he was in a taxi, and the driver passed a red light. They got hit by a big truck, on the drivers side (he died on the spot). Apparently, my friend had switched to the other side of the car, right before the hit. Mashallah he has a good sixth sense. Allah sitar! I am so so so happy that he is ok.
2) With such a good start, I thought it would be an amazing day. However, all went badly during the late afternoon. I was parked next to a donut place, about to leave my car, when a car comes off the main road, and turns onto the road I am on, full speed and coming towards me! I freaked! and flashed my headlights so he would stop. He stopped at the last second then started gesturing at me like WTF! I got soooooo pissed!! He could have easily crashed into me!!
(the guy was in his forties, short and stubby and in a garamba3 car, wearing dishdasha and chumagh)
Anyways, he went down to the donut store and I soon followed, only for him to get all in my face, apparently to apologize (aka. flirt). I walked passed him and said “3aib chithy”.
No sooner had those words left my mouth when all hell broke loose. The guy went berserk!! He starting screaming at the top of his lungs!! There wasn’t even a gradual build up of anger, he just went totally mental and screamed and screamed so hard his voice was breaking up.
He said things like ‘3aib 3alaich intay itgooleenly ana 3aib’, ‘aslan ana ma kint shayfich, 3ala shino shayfa nafsich’, ’shino 3ala balich at7arash feech’. I tried to explain that it was the fact that he was driving recklessly that was 3aib, but he couldn’t get it through his thick skull, that it wasn’t about him flirting with me, just that he was a maniac driver. But he continued his tirade.
I decided to ignore him while he continued screaming and ordered my donuts from the shocked philipina. Of course he ended with ‘wayid maghroora’. Then left and from what I could see took down my car number. I was worried that he would ram into my car on purpose so I went out to my car, and as I was passing, he screamed out “I7saby ma3ach ba3dain!!”
So now I have a guy who is obviously on drugs wanting revenge cause I said ‘3aib’ to him. 3ayal law sabita!?
Of course, I was quite shooken up by what happened. I really wished I had a man that I could call and be a baby to and then he would huff and puff and tell me how he is going to kick that guys ass! lol But I didn’t so I called a couple of guy friends and met up with one for dinner, which made me feel better.
Everyone told me that I should have just left, but the way I see it, is that had I done, he would win. And I can’t have him win. People like that have got to learn that there are consequences to their actions. At the end of the day he might think twice when driving like an idiot.
3) Remember her from point 1? Well, about a week ago she sent me an sms saying that her sister is getting married in Jan, and she wanted to invite my mum and I to the wedding, therefore she would call me later, when she wasn’t busy. I was like WTH?! I thought about it for a while then replied ‘3al baraka’.
I decided since she was one of the closest people to me, I would give her a chance when she calls. But when she did call, 3 days later, I could not bring myself to answer. I thought I would call back later, but I just can’t. Not sure why, but I guess I have had enough.
I am not sure what to do. Call her, sms her, ignore her? I just wish she would have some remorse about being such a bitch to me, when I have always been a good friend to her.
4) Problem is, she isn’t the only one trying to get back in my life. Over the past couple of months, 5 different people have called me out of the blue (Both exes, 2 GF’s, 1 male friend). Not only that, they will call me from weird numbers etc so that I answer them!! And when I do, they just go on to say, Hi how are you and chat to me as if they never did anything wrong. To them I say PISS OFF!!
You either treat me right the first time around (like I treat you) or get the fuck out of my face.
This post is for Adorra!
-I got everyone santa hat accessories so one of the bloggerettes was wearing this and took it off on each ride. Causing the other bloggerette (ironically, the one that called me crazy) to call out, “DON”T FORGET YOUR PENIS!” after each ride. (I think this bloggerette needs a biology class, cause I dunno how she sees it as a penis.)
We decided to have a race. DR won the first time, and nearly one the second time, had I not pulled her rug back midway
Yes, I cheated but it still felt good!!
Can you guess which one I am??
The Wizard…. 
I love this game. You hold a rod and have to manouvre it around the spiral thingy, while the sprialling thingy twists round and round. As you can see I nearly won, when DR decided that a photo of the event (with FLASH) was more worthy than me winning.
Blah blah blah been a while, blah blah I was busy blah blah….I am back
I have SO much I wanna talk about!! Including, a few fun events over the past couple of weeks….
Event One:
The ‘Gang’ and I, and some invitees, spent the day at a mukhayam (large private fenced in tent area), which was soooooooo much fun!!!! Actually, just being with them is fun, since the whole group is so laid back and we are brothers and sisters who truly care for each other. So anyways, the day started off just hanging out and chatting, then we played some golf (one of the guys fixed it up so don’t ask). Later, when it got darker, we shot off some huge fireworks!
So the whole time we were there, we had gigantic speakers beating out the latest dance tunes, and I kept catching the workers shaking their botays to the music. Poor guys, I kept catching them and teasing them about it,
“Ahhh, I see you!” (ya3ny Ahh!! Chakaytik!! lol)
Then, they would get all embarrassed and stop until I am out of sight.
Anyways……soon we couldn’t take it anymore and a few of us started dancing,…ok screw it…I’m lying, I made everyone get up and dance gassib
I can’t help it, if you know me, then you will know, my favourite thing ever is to dance!! And I danced and danced the night away.
Then the funniest thing ever happened! One of the guys, who I had always seen as a very conservative guy, dances into the tent, with all the workers dancing behind him!! I cracked up!!
Those guys were good! O 6ool il mudda, ga3id iyshayish’hum akthar!
Seriously, it was the funniest and most adorable thing ever!!
Oh and I forgot to mention the amazing barbeque steaks etc. compliments of e7m e7m ME!
Event Two:
DR and I, and a couple of other bloggerettes went to EC again. I won’t post all of what happened but I will post the sms conversation between one bloggerette and myself, the next morning.
Miya: Hope you had fun?!
Her: E Walla, I had such a good time last night, walaw inich 6ila3tay mo sa7ya. (note that was like the 7th time I met her)
Miya: 7amdilla ina you had fun, o inich istaw3abtay iny mo sa7ya
Her: 6ila3atay ikhraisha!
Miya: 7aram 3alaich :
Her: Ay 7aram?! Ma buga tikhimi6, ma buga tebelel, ma buga tisirwi3, ma sawayteeh feeny
Miya: It wasn’t me! It was the red bull! (although I only had a sip)
Her: Dude whatever. Next time we go I’m giving you a sedative.
Miya: How about instead, you have red bull and I don’t, so we level things out.
Her: Dude to level things out I’d need LSD.
Hmmm …..in my defense, I did bring along red bull for everyone, so ily ma shurab, thanba 3ala janba! lol. Actually, I think!….I think!… she may be saying that though because I pulled her shoes and socks off, and started swinging them around in the air, while we were on the ‘disco dancer’ and she was holding on for dear life. Or it could be cause she was jealous of my santa hat
*Guys read and post your comments quickly cause fee suwalif itgargi3 ib galby, min no3 3abadat il shiya6een and stuff like that. I got the inside scoop
